Monday, May 14, 2012
There are the cool reminders that sometimes cause a broad smile to sweep across my face and even laugh. I love those times. I don't know if I would have accepted the range of conflicting emotions if I had not been a counselor for 20 years. I may have been one of those people thought to themselves, "Wow, this person is dwelling way too long on this loss of his child. He needs to get over it." Interesting how life experiences allow us to gain such depth into issues that were never even conceptualized in our youth. I would have never even imagined I would have experienced the things I have when I was in my youth enjoying sports, food and fun. However, I realize that life is what we make it.
Friday, April 13, 2012

Why are pediatric cancers the forgotten by our society? According to a Forbes Magazine article breast cancer got $584 million dollars for clinical trials, even AIDS got $254 million for research. Guess how much ALL pediatric cancers got? Only $26 million. AIDS is not even a cancer but the National Cancer Institute (NCI) gave $254 million for research out of a finite bucket of money. Why???
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
Sunday, March 25, 2012

A reminder that we are all Dragonflies.
Eulogy Story : Dragonfly
Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lily pads, there lived a little water beetle in a community of water beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life in the pond with few disturbances and interruptions. Once in a while, sadness would come to the community when one of their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lily pad and would never be seen again. They knew when this happened; their friend was dead, gone forever.
Then, one day, one little water beetle felt an irresistible urge to climb up that stem. However, he was determined that he would not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what he had found at the top. When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the surface of the lily pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body designed for flying.
So, fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never known existed. Then he remembered his beetle friends and how they were thinking by now he was dead. He wanted to go back to tell them, and explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been before. His life had been fulfilled rather than ended. But, his new body would not go down into the water. He could not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he understood that their time would come, when they, too, would know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off into his joyous new life!
Not sure who the author is
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
My mission is three fold:
Friday, March 02, 2012


